Friendship is priceless. But only 37 cents per friend on Facebook is still a good deal. Do you offer more for your friendship?

Human kind has been finally capable to quote the just value of  friendship and find the advantage of it: “If you’re experiencing a bit of bloat on your Facebook friend list, you can snag a free burger by dropping 10 of your Facebook friends, courtesy of Burger King.”  For only 37 cents per friend, as The New York Times reports.

Given the irreplaceable social and therapeutic value of Facebook, at least I would have expected a coke with that burger!  After all, the social network, with its implicit and ongoing “who has more friends” contest,  makes ourselves as an added value for the other, providing  an overall priceless and philantropic service: somewhere between a 24/7 free psychoanalytical therapy session to reassure our ego about our social importance, displayed and achieved through a virtual social network legitimizing our existence, and a  pronto shot of vanity that makes us constantly update our current status, because the world (Facebook’s world of course) is in constant need of that vital information about us. God forbid our friends are not updated on whether we’re peeing or reflecting over the world’s unfairness (maybe, because we need to pee while on the bus and thank god for our Blackberry that gives us the chance to immediately inform  Facebook about our inner issues stimulated by the bumpy ride).

 If it’s true that we are what we eat, then we’re all potential dropped friends on Facebook worth only a 37 cents bite of a burger, courtesy of Burger King. 

Who offers more for your friendship?  The auction is officially opened.

News media elected Obama way before the elections. Was that objective information? P.S. I would have voted Obama but that’s not the point.

Media credibility seems to have gone down in this last presidential campaign coverage, whereas TV news ratings seem to have gone up as citizens in front of the TV, better known as TV audience, leaned more favorably toward bias news reinforcing their political view. 

A study by Pew Research Center’s Project for Excellence in Journalism shows that during this last political campaign cable news networks provided a bias approach, individuating in MSNBC vs Fox news the most ideological divide battle.  “Where one goes for news makes a difference” summarizes the study. In a further report,  PEJ shows that in the campaign coverage the press has principally leaned toward left, in favor of Obama, with McCain receiving a more negative coverage.  “Basically you chose your news outlet if it made you happy, if it reinforced all your views.”- said Richard Wald, a professor of media and society at Columbia University School of Journalism and a former senior vice president at ABC News, on the New York Times. The NYT article opens with the description of what “a lousy day was to be Senator John McCcain”, if reported by MSNBC, unless to report the same news was Sean Hannity and Greta Van Susteren on Fox News Channel and then “Things were looking up for Mr. McCain”.

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Unlike politics that, beside its crystallized and atrophied basis on each party side, seeks a convergence to the center as winning formula to draw the independent and swing voters, in the news media battle field, the winning formula seems to inversely lie and rely on the actual devergence from the center, polarizing the TV audience into those two political “Kantian categories of the American spirit”, such as the right “bible belt” of the middle America versus the snobby and elitist left liberals of the West and East coast: Fox news leads the TV ratings, defeating CNN, not by being a champion of objectivity, but by actually speaking directly at the guts of conservative America, presumably the core of that mid America with whom both political parties want to flirt and please. After all, during the primaries, Obama’s unfortunate slip refered to these people, those “bitter” working class voters, as Obama called them, that “cling to guns or religion or antipathy to people who aren’t like them”; that is mainly the same TV audience making The O’Reilly Factor on Fox News the leading political news show at 9pm, as well as the same target, as marketing would call, for which John McCain chose Sarah Palin as a mere, but extraordinary marketing instrument capable to penetrate, intercept and energize that religious and bible belt vote, aka the GOP base, that until that moment was a little bit asleep over McCain’s campaign. Within the same polarizing logic, on the other side, on MSNBC, the most watched program is the political talk show Rachel Maddow , whose passionate and declared left leaning view was cable to double the usual viewership of 800,000 to an average of of 1.7 million since she started on Sept. 8, beating a TV icon such as Larry King on CNN. In other words, it seems like presenting an ideologized version of political news pays more than objective information.

But since the second half of the twentieth century hadn’t journalism realized that a more objective news coverage would have assured more readers and a broader TV audience, in the name of a higher profit (forget about professional ethics) ?  

I suspect that for media, which are not an ethereal entity but real individuals, such as producers, editors in chief and journalists with the responsibility of pressing deadlines and daily decisions, often taken with no or little time (even to repress their animal and most important their political instincts-after all we’re all human beings!), sometimes might be easier to “accidentally” slip into the convenience of riding the ideological and political wave of their audience’s existing beliefs in order to profit on an immediate consensus and therefore higher ratings equal to more advertising revenues for the network or for the newspaper.

As marketing might suggest, it’s profitable and rewarding for media to say what people need and want to hear, reinforcing their ideological barricades: advertising campaigns are usually developed according to a cognitive science theory teaching that in order to understand and decode a new message, the brain tends to naturally filter it through the closest previous frame of reference. That means that our brain functions mainly favor the new information that resembles and is compliant to what we previously know and matches what we believe in, even to the point of denying cler evidence of a truth not corresponding to our convenient beliefs. It’s called cognitive dissonance.

I fear that objectivity in journalism often remains a naive academic residual replaced by a more realistic professional “on the battle field” application of 101 news media college class intended to conveniently feed the readers and the audience with what they want to hear. 

Journalism vs marketing: can someone kindly remind me the difference these days?

Swing vote Night: Homer Simpson’s pursuit of happiness

 

I went for a walk. The other night was one of those nights where all you wanna do is getting lost amid a big and hectic crowd, mirroring yourself through the world surrounding you. In other words, I decided to wander around Manhattan, after a long day of work. Do you know any better city in the world to feel serenely anonymous, while enjoying watching people?!

Walking from Columbus Circle to  Lincoln Center, I was watching all the cute couples dressed up for some nice Jazz- the guy feeling nervous, walking all uptight in his suite, but proud for taking his lady out to such an elegant place and the girl, content, but detached, with that snobby expression on her face, of whom doesn’t really want to reveal what a novelty that is and instead shows almost indifferent distance from the height of her hot,  but damn uncomfortable heels. 

Dark night or Swing Vote?  After Barnes and Nobles I bumped into a movie theater. The choice almost seemed hard. Then, I opted for Swing vote. I figured it’d be funny to spend 2 hours seeing what you always learn at school “Every vote counts”, especially, if the election ends tight and a single 40 years old single dad from New Mexico is the only “just laid off” citizen in charge of deciding who ‘s going to be the next president of the United States. What’s so funny about it? He doesn’t give an ass rack about politics, nor about the civic duty ” because no matter who wins, I won’t still have the money to pay for health insurance if you get sick”, drinks like there’s no tomorrow and he’s ignorant and as narrow minded worse than any  characterization of Homer Simpson meets the family guy! Oh and on top of that, what would be so funny if it wasn’t for the fact that that’s what actually happens in real life, is that the two presidential candidates adhere their campaign on him, changing and flip-flop their agenda according to the latest polls-in the movie his interviews on where he stands on singular issues- Does it sound familiar? I guess reality beats immagination 1-0.

Overall, the movie is entertaining. Nevertheless, technically, once you figure the pattern they’re on, it becomes too predictable and you can tell that at some point the writers got lost, not knowing exactly what to do and where to go with that. Characters depiction is to Manichean: good ones are plain good and the bad ones plain bad, in other words, a typical personality’s definition of Walt Disney movies, where characters are flat and there’s no real in depth and complex analysis: there’s enough drama to engage you, but never too much to the point to traumatize you and when that is about to happen, a joke immediately relieves the pressure, with a shot of pure lightness and irony. After all, it’s PG 13 on purpose, so that more people can go watch it. In Hollywood, marketing first, art later….ars gratia artis I guess.

The movie is averagely funny. The idea that makes it funny disturbs me. Ignorance disturbs me.

It limits and narrows down your awareness about your real options in life, your rights, your opportunities to be a good person, a good father, as it is in the movie, or a good citizen and become a better one. What’s worse? Politicians in real life speculate and leverage such status of ignorance and poverty with every instrument they have to gain votes and maintain the status quo. Since Roman Empire’s “religio instrumentum regni”,  politics has used religion, for instance, as an instrument to gain power out of fear and control over poor and ignorant people. In the current western civilization, the US politics election always hinge upon workers class: whoever is able to get those votes and the so called bible belt’s votes usually wins. That’s how Bush won his second mandate. In the middle East, terrorism is often used an instrument to leverage poor people and speculate on them to turn them against the big western enemy: the equation? The more these poor people are kept in poverty and ignorance and the more these countries can blame and speculate over the evil United States and their allies! Obviously, I can’t say that western politicians, unlike most middle east and third world countries politicians, aspire to maintain a state of ignorance. Nevertheless, while attempting to change that through different political platforms, they most certainly go after what these classes want and need to hear, adapting and shaping their political agenda on the latest polls, more than on what they really stand. Unfortunately,  in the long term, that causes, in my opinion, an overall impoverishment of the political and moral standards of the nations.

Ignorance keeps you objectively in stall, still, entrapped in a limited world, paradoxically confined within a state of apparent peace with the world, because the worse part is that you’re not even aware of such limiting status. You think life is fine just like that; to break the “veil of Maya”, having the epiphany about what the real life is, about what the German philosopher Kant would call “noumeno” (even though for him it’s impossible to actually ever know that) is the real challenge in life. That is the real challenge for politicians: to drag those people out of their cultural, educational and political ignorance. Not to mention, on a more intimate sphere, to be able to fight sentimental and emotional ignorance, giving oneself a “sentimental education”, as the french writer Flaubert would call it, an emotional education, in order to actually learn how to manage and express in a healthy manner one’s own sentiments, feelings and emotions and consequently, be able to consider, comprehend and respect someone else’s feelings and emotions, like your love ones’.

This is the one of the hardest challenges for human being, to be able to find the right equilibrium in that moral and psychological tension between feeling unique and confident about oneself on one hand, while feeling part of something bigger like your family, your community, your work on the other and be able to respect both: Aristotle defined us as “zoon polikon”, a “political animal”, in the sense of social animal, in need of relating with others. But in the age of communication, the paradox is that it’s harder to know how to really communicate with ourselves, be really in touch with ourselves and be able to express our real emotions to the others. As Marshall Macluhan, the renowned mass media author, once wrote ” In the age of communication, information is the first merchandise”. But are we really capable to communicate, inform and find the right instruments to be informed in a state of limiting ignorance?

The other day, as I was walking on the streets of Harlem, I thought I was in some kind of “Finding Forrester” movie where it is such a cliche to hear a black guy saying to an older, typically wiser “Fuck college, I need to get a job now man!”. Well, it ain’t no movie and that I heard it for real, just a step away from my conception of the world, while holding in my hand a copy of The New Yorker. Isn’it ironic? In one step, two complete different approaches to the world. That’s what I hate. That’s what disturbs me.  A narrow mind that is convinced, just because he/she doesn’t know any better, that a job now useful to pay the bills and utilities is not even better than a career in a few years, but is actually the only available and realistic option. If it’s true that “everyone takes the limits of their own vision as the limits of the world”, as the German philosopher Schopenauer said, then, ignorance definitely constitutes the fence and the guardian of those limits of your own vision.

In these situations, ignorance rarely stays confined within humbleness to often grow, instead, into a Manichean and simplistic arrogance: life is complicated, yes, but not complex. “Let me tell you how life works. If you have money, you’re somebody. If you don’t, you’re nobody. It’s either black, or white. No grey zone”. It’s what I’m guessing that guy would have told me if I had started talking to him. Because of ignorance, money is the closest element resembling a value, inevitably acquiring such a status. It becomes a moral value to act upon and accordingly, as well as a parameter to judge people and society. After all, even Thomas Jefferson’s pursuit of happiness apparently is approached neither as an existential matter, nor as philosophical or a psychoanalytical one, but rather, as he himself wrote in his own words “[It is a] great truth that industry, commerce and security are the surest roads to the happiness and prosperity of [a] people.” –Thomas Jefferson to Francisco Chiappe, 1789. Papers 15:405. So, unfortunately, happiness is equal to wealthiness. Money is equal to a value worth it to pursue, thanks to a state of ignorance that doesn’t make you know any better, nor more aspiring to higher values, hopes and goals.

“Where do you hear this non sense? Stop listening to that lady. Stay away from her!”. “That lady” is the teacher of the movie protagonist’s young daughter trying to teach her some civic duty and right. Imagine a dialogue between Maggie Simpson and Homer Simpson about the importance of education and civil rights. Funny, but sad. And again, reality beats imagination 2-0 again. I know fathers punishing their kids by making them read. Of course, reading is not a right, neither an opportunity of intellectual growth, nor a simple pleasure. No, it’s a punishment! Hello Homer Simpson! That’s a heck of way to educate your children and feed them with the right values in life! Oh, but it gets better. I’ve known struggling single mothers telling her children not to go college. Of course, college it’s a waste of time! Make some money, be practical and contribute with the bills payments…for real?

The truth is your personality is what affects your choices in life.  Your incomes simply affect the degree of that choice. The goals, your values, your ambitions and principles, those come from the person you are, from the education you had, your emotional one, your sentimental, if you have been loved and therefore have learned in turn how to love back and respect. The adult that you become in life stems from the degree of exposure you had to cultural and social open mindedness. All the experience that you have read in literature, studied in history, read in anthropology, or science, gave you the mind frame, the “forma mentis” to realize that, regardless of whether you like them or agree with them, there are so many more lifestyles than the one surrounding you and that gives you the opportunity to aspire to create your own life.

Just like when you walk into Whole Food and realize that at the salad bar there’s so much more food that you can have for lunch that you could ever imagine. But, if you don’t have access to Whole Food, you will never know about all that available selection. What does it give you access to that? Money? No. That comes afterward. The primary reason of access is the right dietary education to know that you need to feed your body in a healthy way, just like your mind. Education and information gives you access to life. Those are your primary raison d’etre of your choices in life. The valuable currency to have success in life. Not money. A better education and information gives you access to knowledge, to the possibility to discover more options than the ones you’re surrounded by and therefore to enlighten your creativity and enhance your skills to build and create exactly what you want. You go to Whole Food once you have learned what’s good for your body, not after you have won the lottery. Look at rappers, they continue to do the same things they used to when they poor, but to a higher degree. Their houses are packed with gold and diamonds but that doesn’t give them style, nor class!. With more money and no education you might be able to have a McDonald inside your house, but not Whole Food. 

Marketing, as the “for-profit science” analyzing sociological, cognitive and psychological pattern behaviours knows that very well. In the current, complex and diversified mass market, demographics, like income, gender, age, counts much less in determining a marketing campaign. What matters is often time your behaviour. What you feel, what you like to do and think. That’s what companies crave to know about you. And your behaviour, your choices comes from your personality. In fact, no matter whether you’re poor or rich, if you’re ignorant and not educated, you might even be able to gentrify your social status, but not your own mind frame.That, unfortunately, will stay the same: narrow minded and ignorant, just like your choices in life.

At the end of the movie, Kevin Costner eventually comes to terms with himself and decides to do so with the others, apologizing in front of the whole world because ashamed for being a bad man, a bad father and a bad citizen. I guess, you can have a wonderful daughter cover up for you all the time, like in the movies, or hide your ignorance in a million dollar house, like often times happens in life, but evenutally the  odor of your real nature will arise, transpiring in your gestures, in your conversations and in your choices in life, just like in Renaissance, when perfumes were used by royalty and nobility to mask body odors resulting from the sanitary practices of the day…but sooner or later, the real odor would always prevail over the fake scent of perfume.

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On Charlie Rose, New Journalism still comes from newspapers?

On Charlie Rose on PBS, Channel 13 for those of you living in New York city, Tom Wolfe, author of “The Bonfire of the Vanities” and founder of the “New Journalism”‘s definition, claims that broadcast journalism always follows print’s.  News channels never really break with a fresh story that has not been previously  taken from a newspaper, or checked and confirmed by the wire, a trusted seal of credibility and source of ongoing new material for everybody in this business. 

Wow. Is it live or am I watching a re-run of the show from 20 years ago?

The host and Mr. Wolfe go on on the issue for about 10 or 15 minutes, bringing up different examples of such theory. True, actually. I do agree with that. Nevertheless, is it really true that today’s news come primarily from newspapers? They go on and on talking about print journalism versus broadcast’s, but isn’it a little bit too 80’s just like Tom Wolfe’s books? Don’t they forget about something here?  Didn’t Time magazine in 2006 announced to the  world that “Yes, you. You control the Information Age. Welcome to your world” on the cover of the magazine, making “You” Person of the Year?(http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1569514,00.html) Given their age, background and audience, I’m not surprised about this kind of conversation (or maybe a simple slip of memory, or selective memory?), but speaking of good journalism and of two very good journalists, I believe they should better check their source: Can newspapers today, with declining advertising rate and readers actually moving onto Internet for their news, be really considered as the prime source of news? How about bloggers, Youtube,  podcasting? “You” and digital media have been revolutionizing the language and journalism itself, forcing print and broadcast to constantly chase them. Even Mr. Sulzberger, the publisher of The New York Times declared in an interview to Haaretz, the Isareli newspaper, that he’s thinking about shutting down the print of the newspaper to actually go only online in 5 years.  http://www.haaretz.com/hasen/spages/822775.html

Well, maybe tomorrow, you blogger will write about it after seeing Tom Wolfe’s interview on You Tube.

Definitely not a geek

Music hasn’t been in my days for a few months now and neither has harmony. My computer inexorably crashed and so did my inner peace: in the past 6 months I quit my job, I ran the NY marathon, finding along the way an even longer journey to complete, the love of my life who, evenutally, I ended up following  to Seattle-yeah, very Forest Gump- walked into a sex shop with a gay friend of mine in Los Angeles who made a complete ass of my straight orientation and currently, I’m planning my next assault to New York, while assisting impotently at my girlfriend’s divorce. 

Does anybody know how to reinstall a better software after pushing the reset button?

 

 

 

Do we shake the hand of nature, or society’s?

Is human being defined by design of nature, or by imprinting of society?

Over the course of the centuries human being has given himself a blanket to cover his definition that inevitably would have become too short: eventually, the baby grew and we would need a new one. Ancient Greeks needed philosophy to explain human restless nature. Christians religion, to explain his wonder and destiny.
Church Counter reform, Renaissance and Enlightenment introduced, each in different ways, reason and nature as a major definition: We got secularism. “God is dead” as Nietzsche said. Science explains human nature by genes, by DNA. Neuroscience tells us that we’re all about neurons and chemical mechanistic reactions. Sociology, psychology and psychoanalysis, at the turn of the last century, imposed the heavy hand of culture and society’s legacy upon us.

But somehow, all these answers always provide with fulfilling but temporary definitions, until the next one comes up. Nowadays, globalization provides new cognitive elements for the mind to define their psyche: Internet and media convergence provide a cognitive platform for the brain to work on an horizontal level, rather than on a “vertical” one, an in-depth analysis belonging to the “Guttenberg” era: we “surf” on Internet. we work by links. The same show can be watched on different platforms, like Internet, cells, TV, i pods, video games. Kids’ attention, as well TV audience’s attention spam, remarkably shrinks in light of a growing brain’s ability to juggle multitasks activities  as we simultaneously text, listening to the i-pod, while downloading a video from youtube. 
Do children  grow up with a different use of the brain? How does this affect our definition of human being ?

With such boost of  secularism made of technology and science, human being is able to find lots of brand new answers to ancient and atavic existential questions. Nevertheless, contextually, such a sudden boost of technology scares us, paradoxically bringing us to look for comforting answers away from reality. Like  religion.
In the US, president Bush won the second term election because of the so called bible belt’s vote.
In the Middle East, terrorism (too often, with the aid and support of heads of state) exploits and speculates on Muslim religion to leverage poor people to attack western countries, whereas, in reality, Muslim religion is a peaceful one.
In any case, whether for political or existential reasons, religion seems to have a major come back. If you look up on IMDB.com, amidst the overall top 10 rank in movies, ” The passion” is the only actual movie about a real fact. All the rests are mostly cartoons, like Shrek. People feel lost, unsettle within a scary and confusing reality and in need of a shelter, something that doesn’t make them think. Unless it’s religion.
After political ideologies definitely died after the Berlin wall fall, after Fukuyama’s “end of history”, the pope, regardless of your religion, or appreciation for him, is objectively the only  “ideological leader” capable to gather thousands of people.
So my question is, how do we redefine human being in the wake of such a golden age of post- secularism, where, on one hand, technology and science have improved human life and discovered the apparent real nature of human behavior and design,  and on the other hand, God may have not been dead, but actually “resuscitated”, because of the paradoxical people’s sense of confusion and fear about current modern high tech society?

The NYC marathon in 13 hours

And here we go. About 13 hours to go for the new york city marathon. Now, it’s 8 40 pm and just had lots of pasta. And I mean a lot. a pack only for me. ..One of the main reasons why I’m doing all this!

I’m going to bed in about 2 hours. Wake up call at 4:15 am. I gotta catch the marathon bus to Staten Island at 5:45, one hour earlier, because of the construction works on the Verazzano bridge.

Then, wait for a few hours amidst concerts and tons of people and at 10:10am we finally start. Well, it takes about 10/15 minutes to actually start from the real start that activates the chip I will be wearing on my shoes. It takes some human traffic to have 38,000 runners to start their dreams becoming true. So at approximately 10:30 I’ll be really hitting the road: Staten Island, Brooklin, Queens, Manahttan and Harlem, Bronx and back to Manhattan, Central Park and the arrival at the “Tavern on the Green”.

I can’t wait. http://www.nycmarathon.org/home/index.php

Modern Love on Sunday morning

Finally, after a long period of forced fasting abroad, today I got to enjoy the Sunday New York Times edition at Starbucks, coming with a Grande hot chai tea latte with skim milk, a slice of bluberry cake, or espresso chocolate brownie and a good dose of intriguing curiosity to watch people hanging out in New York on Sunday morning.

After assaulting the thick paper sandwich from the book review, the Week review and Thomas Friedman’s editorial, I get to the only Style Section’s column worth reading and that’s where my masochistic instinct to somehow enjoy my melancholy kicks in: through the words of the “Modern Love” Column.

How come that according to this weekly column, written by different people telling about past, defining love experiences, the concept of modern love mostly hinges upon lack of communication, incomprehension, loneliness and unmet expectations?

Why does ” Modern Love” solely comprehend a lonely and consuming experience according to the NY times?

Following, one of my favorite “Modern Love” columns for writing and content on the Sunday Ny times:

“When the Thunder Rolls in, My Lie Rolls Out”
By AMY O’LEARY
Published: September 10, 2006

The first time I said it, I thought it was the best kind of lie: tender and considerate.
My boyfriend and I were lounging in bed as a gust of wind from one of those sweeping Midwestern thunderstorms crashed against the flimsy picture window of our rural Minnesota apartment. Our relationship was in trouble, and that’s when the lie came to me.
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Solitudine, orecchio dell’anima.

Roman Holidays

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The trick is to look around as you breathe the night air of Campo De Fiori. Rome, almost 2 am and by the statue of Giordano Bruno a bunch of guys with too much beer in their loud words are still singing.  They must be tourists!  I’m walking back to my car now, exhausted, but content for such a great weekend.  That’s the trick to enjoy life, to catch this precise moment, when, at the end of a party, you’re going back home; you’re walking alone and as you’re revisiting in your head your night, you can feel inside that transition from being content and relaxed, to be absolute tired and sleepy by the time you finally arrive home. That transition is the cherry on top of my nights: In silence, I can hear the joy of that night, until then covered by the noise of a Roman Sunday night in spring. 

As I’m walking back to my car, still whistling some random Annie Lennox song stuck in my ears since I heard it a few minutes earlier from a car down the street, I pass by a bar, where the waiter, cleaning the last few tables outside,  is  swearing “porca puttana”  like there’s no tomorrow, by himself, to the air, to that lovely breeze that I guess he’s definitely not enjoying in this moment. “Yo Mike, what’s wrong with you? Relax” says his buddy.  “That American chick, that girl that was sitting here 2 minutes ago, had the guts to check my pockets. That bitch asked me If I stole her stupid camera!” There you go- I think- another damn tourist caught by a gipsy. They’re damn swift, you don’t even realize. Magic! Her camera was gone and she must have thought the waiter got it. Another lovely “picture” of Rome.

Anyway, I keep walking and I actually  make sure to have my wallet, you never know. I turned the corner and as  Annie Lennox’s “boat is sinking” again in my ears, I actually see a digital camera on the street, right there, in front of me. “Porca puttana” -now it’s my turn to swear.- How about that!  That gipsy must have run so fast that he dropped the camera!

“Roman Holidays” could have been the title of that photo shoot, starring a very pretty girl.  She was blond, curly hair, long, and a very cute smile. I wish I knew her name. I wish I knew her, actually!  I think in the picture she must have been sitting in Capri, or Caprì, as normally American say, still don’t know why. Then, I recognize the Amalfi Coast and Rome.  Some party with lots of people, go figure. Her Roman holidays seem to have been a lot of fun. Some romance too maybe:  There’s a picture with two glasses filled in yellow, orange juice? They’re on a table. It’s dark around.  Maybe, it’s night, or maybe who took the picture didn’t have the time to use photo shop yet. The table seems well set, it must be a nice restaurant. It can’t be orange juice. I refuse to think someone would order orange juice in a nice restaurant  for dinner. What else is yellow? A Mimosa. It could be a Mimosa served on a Romantic dinner in some fancy restaurant of Italy. A date? Why not. She’s beautiful, I’m sure she can get a date anytime she wants to, especially in Italy. I’m sure there’s some Italian Stallion somewhere for this lovely girl.  She looks young, you can tell from her skin, but mostly from her smile. Monalisa Smile. She must be a dreamer. Ok, now I’m really fantasizing about this girl!  So, maybe, they ordered a Mimosa just to break the ice. Who knows? In any case, she looks like she had fun in Italy and I like to think, particularly on that occasion.

It’s been awhile now since that night. I still have that camera.  I decided to post that picture. Maybe tonight, she’ll read my blog, by chance, precisely as I did find by chance her camera. She’ll let me know her name and when I’ll meet her,  we’ll have a Mimosa under the stars.  Why not? Roman Holidays with a stranger…  I’m a dreamer too, at almost 3 am of a Roman spring night.

 Sogni d’oro…